Dina L. Relles

writer. editor. curious + common.

It was the last day of the year, when I always try to make time more tangible, pin it down, make sense of its passing. When I grapple with what it means to be alive at this place, in this moment.

The kids were playing in the basement—the younger two still battling a cold—and I’d tinker on Twitter from time to time, marveling at how everyone, everywhere was processing the same year end. When I stole away for a midday shower, I thought of a meager way to counter the distressing uncertainty in our broken world and in my buzzing mind. Starting January 1, I would record one good thing every day. I would tweet it out with the hashtag #onegoodthing, I promised, both to hold myself accountable and to bring others in.

For these small snapshots, these shared sentiments, are the same everywhere—bare feet under a cold comforter, freshly fallen snow, a favorite song on the radio, a train platform farewell. Tiny touch points that tie us together across time and space with their quotidian truth. It’s in the commonplace that we find common ground.

I seek what I always do with this space—to doggedly, perhaps foolishly, chase the good, and shed light on all we share.


january

1 the smell of outdoor air in winter
2 a quiet drive on rainy back roads to meet an old friend
3 an interview with @Lin_Manuel on @nprfreshair during afternoon carpool chaos
4 afternoon coffee

5 antique books of poetryc1b7hsmxgaestue

6 early morning snowfall outside the kitchen window
7 an hour to write

8 the smell of wood burning

9 family time around the fireplace
10 communal moments of laughter & levity (also, puns)
11 hearing your child read a book for the first time

12 the long way home

13 farmland as far as the eye can seec2el6fpxeaexpwn
14 This quote from my youngest son: “You have to look. If you close your eyes and you miss things, it’s sad.”
15 the unnecessary kindness of a local store merchant

16 neighbors who look out for you

17 sitting safe and dry inside a car while rain splatters the windshield
18 the rumble of a train passing in the distance

19 a house quiet with kid sleep

20 nostalgia pangs
21 walking, marching, the way humans come together
22 the warm weight of a baby settling to sleep on your chest
23 your poem in print

24 getting swept up in a song that takes you back

25 striking up conversation with a stranger in the waiting room
26 wrapping your hands around a warm cup of tea
27 climbing under cold covers

28 an airport embrace

29 date night
30 the courtesy wave between fellow motorists
31 late-night conversations

13 thoughts on “good things

  1. Tami Astorino's avatar Tami Astorino says:

    Wow this is so beautiful. Made my morning. This line!!!! Tiny touch points that tie us together across time and space with their quotidian truth. I just want to say it out loud, like it feels good in my mouth! You are amazing.

    Tami

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    1. you’re the best reader a girl could have…love you. xox

  2. Good things, indeed. You could pick 28 of these and write a post everyday this month with a story or reflection about them. (Sorry, can’t help it!)

    1. ever the promptress!! love this idea…you’re getting my wheels turning…as always. thank you, love.

  3. Nina Badzin's avatar Nina Badzin says:

    I love this idea, love the list, love the new font (so cool), AND love Jena’s idea.

    1. ha! thank you, thank you for ALL the love. xoxo

  4. bam's avatar bam says:

    this is a poem, a beautiful poem that breathes light into each and every day. a practice i too might take up, in my own quiet way……beautiful. i love the simplicity of so many of the very good things……

    1. thank you, thank you…and i love the thought that you, too, may be out there doing the same. i have found that somehow it is the simplest things that are the most sustaining…xo

  5. Jennifer Zitron Suomi's avatar Jennifer Zitron Suomi says:

    This was so relaxing to read, Dina. It brought me to a place of peace, familiarity and comfort on this busy morning. These reflections would make a wonderful published calendar or datebook. Even though somewhat obsolete, your sentiments just may bring back their popularity!

    1. aww, what a kind thought! a lovely idea, Jennifer. for now, i plan to continue the practice & see where it leads…

  6. I’ve seen these on your Twitter timeline. Beautiful. Hope you’re doing well.

    1. Thank you for reading! I hope you are as well. xo

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